<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[Judgmentally Jae]]></title><description><![CDATA[Reflections on Life, Unfiltered]]></description><link>https://www.judgmentallyjae.com/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2026 16:30:31 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.judgmentallyjae.com/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[The Next Thing]]></title><description><![CDATA[Grief is really effing weird, I tell ya.   I thought I processed everything, but then some weird stuff sneak attacks me.  Like crying in the grocery store every time I enter one.   Or only wearing all black.  Or introducing myself as Jae to new people, possibly as a way to create distance.  Maybe as a way to reshape my identity. Haven't quite figured it out yet. I don't think I'm actually doing as well as I think I am. I kept cycling through the stages of grief to be able to do The Next...]]></description><link>https://www.judgmentallyjae.com/post/the-next-thing</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a8b71788eed5abe8163f806</guid><pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2026 22:19:47 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jae Wright</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Who Am I Mourning?]]></title><description><![CDATA[I’ve been wearing all black lately, starting maybe a month after Mommy died. Only when I leave the house though… like if I must be perceived it is in all black. Maybe my sneakers or shoes have color. A bit of gold for my wedding band. Even my glasses are clear with black bits. When I look in the mirror and check for the ever present orange cat hair that seems to cling to my freaking spirit at this point, I laugh at my outfit and think to myself “I’m still in mourning, I can wear all black....]]></description><link>https://www.judgmentallyjae.com/post/who-am-i-mourning</link><guid isPermaLink="false">6a88cfef700eb2025e8ec606</guid><pubDate>Sun, 23 Aug 2026 21:54:00 GMT</pubDate><dc:creator>Jae Wright</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>